Stress Filtering: A Path to Life Balance

No one thrives under stress. When it feels like everything is piling up—both professionally and personally—it’s up to us to pull the emergency brake. We all have different stress thresholds; some can handle more, others less. The key is recognizing your own limit. While short periods of stress are manageable, when it starts to feel like you’re drowning in demands and obligations, it’s time for a stress filtering.

What is Stress Filtering?

Stress filtering means deliberately eliminating or restructuring the factors in your life that cause stress. I recently went through this process and now wonder why I waited so long. Letting go of certain things in life can be both liberating and empowering.

How to Conduct a Stress Filtering:

  1. Activities and Projects
    Map out everything you’re involved in. Ask yourself: Are these activities energizing or draining? What can you realistically cut back or eliminate?
  2. People in Your Life
    Identify relationships that uplift you versus those that drain you. Can you limit contact with individuals who are sources of stress?
  3. Finances
    Is your financial situation causing stress? Are you living beyond your means? Pinpoint what adjustments you can make.
  4. Other Stress Factors
    This could include work-related restructuring, health issues, or life crises. Some factors can’t be removed, but they need to be addressed in a structured way.

Your Challenge: Identify Three Measurable Stress Factors

To tackle stress effectively, focus on measurable strategies. Start by identifying three stress factors you can influence and evaluate after 30 days. For example:

  • Work hours: Reduce overtime by 25%.
  • Finances: Create a budget and cut unnecessary expenses by a specific amount.
  • Relationships: Limit interactions with an energy-draining person to once a week.

After 30 days, assess: Have these changes reduced your stress? Are they sustainable long-term? By addressing stress in a concrete, actionable way, you increase your chances of finding balance.

Good luck with your filtering!

Have a brilliant day!

Ulf Lidman

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